Am I attracting spirits?

You are sensitive and your feeling the presence of spirits, and the shadows are just a part way manifestation of a spirit, you could have two different type of haunts in your homes as well. I believe you have some residual energy type haunt going on, like when your sister seen a shadow with your hair, this sounds like an imprint of you- residual energy. I have seen myself once as an imprint from the past, it don't mean that you have to me dead to be an imprint, and some imprints don't always manifest all the way. Why people are always confused, many of the times it's not a ghost or spirit but residual energy. If it communicates with you, it's a spirit, if it don't it's possible it's an imprint.